tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post282571601349421379..comments2023-03-29T08:15:49.360-06:00Comments on Ella Ever After: Love Means Never Having to AskEllahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-27913973415138881042016-04-24T21:39:36.828-06:002016-04-24T21:39:36.828-06:00Great story Ella. Love the "just because"...Great story Ella. Love the "just because" spanking. It's caring and thoughtful, he's thinking of you obviously and that is so loving.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-22217140735873929162016-04-18T19:39:51.193-06:002016-04-18T19:39:51.193-06:00Welcome, Cygnet,
I am so glad you have given me a ...Welcome, Cygnet,<br />I am so glad you have given me a comment today. I love to know that something I wrote touched a chord with a reader.<br /><br />Yes, a Just Because is to be treasured. I think you are right. Maybe part of its charm is that he is trying to read me and know what I need. <br /><br />Thanks for your Visit,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-12113396610870161452016-04-18T18:31:42.172-06:002016-04-18T18:31:42.172-06:00A JB that you don't have to ask for means he&#...A JB that you don't have to ask for means he's paying attention!Cygnethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15158946287178566956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-56483178993835827582016-04-17T19:45:28.864-06:002016-04-17T19:45:28.864-06:00Hi there, Lilli. Have I told you how much I love ...Hi there, Lilli. Have I told you how much I love that name? Just don't like the asking. It is like if you had to ask him to get you a birthday present. NOT THE SAME!<br /><br />Sending Hugs,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-88123193525606048112016-04-17T17:20:54.825-06:002016-04-17T17:20:54.825-06:00Just because spankings are my favorite too. I don...Just because spankings are my favorite too. I don't mind asking every now and then, but I agree it's much better if it's something he initiates. I find my imagination contemplating what a spanking Olympics might be like! ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-1977466244701112912016-04-15T19:10:35.963-06:002016-04-15T19:10:35.963-06:00Exactly, Clara. The absolute best is when the spa...Exactly, Clara. The absolute best is when the spanking comes out of left field. I just think of it as another way Sam can say, "I love you."<br /><br />Hugs From EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-61605654763635849772016-04-15T19:03:08.466-06:002016-04-15T19:03:08.466-06:00Oh, Sunny! I laughed so hard at this dirty little...Oh, Sunny! I laughed so hard at this dirty little pun. Count me as a fan of your humor as well as your books.<br /><br />Ella Still GigglingEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-62577037670579764612016-04-15T13:02:47.793-06:002016-04-15T13:02:47.793-06:00I hate asking too. And when you "ask" wi...I hate asking too. And when you "ask" without asking the spanking isn't the same either. Like the thinking on JB and BJ!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />ClaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-25011814622862612402016-04-15T10:37:34.852-06:002016-04-15T10:37:34.852-06:00Thanks Ella, he is back in swatting form too!! lol...Thanks Ella, he is back in swatting form too!! lol<br />xxan English Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00696976759167193635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-47978469198654984032016-04-15T08:21:58.134-06:002016-04-15T08:21:58.134-06:00Such a great post and I think you hit the nail on ...Such a great post and I think you hit the nail on the head (smiling). Asking is never easy.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-62791865203382037382016-04-15T05:11:08.549-06:002016-04-15T05:11:08.549-06:00You really made me smile, Abby. I should have kno...You really made me smile, Abby. I should have known you would be the one who would think of the JB and BJ flip! Hey, whatever works.<br /><br />Hugs From the Heart,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-75705850578129395382016-04-15T05:05:16.024-06:002016-04-15T05:05:16.024-06:00You nailed that one, Janey. "...his decision...You nailed that one, Janey. "...his decision" is the most important. That just melts my heart. <br /><br />It's kind of like praise. If you have to "fish" for a compliment, it is not nearly as satisfying as having someone thinking of it themselves.<br /><br />Ella Ellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-86562826091526831932016-04-15T04:59:21.907-06:002016-04-15T04:59:21.907-06:00Ha, Cat! There could be a series of spanking even...Ha, Cat! There could be a series of spanking events - wood, leather, etc. With this group the competition could indeed be international. The training part would be ever so nice.<br /><br />Hugs From EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-25937166639231827502016-04-15T03:04:39.788-06:002016-04-15T03:04:39.788-06:00What a wonderful post...I love your style of wri...What a wonderful post...I love your style of writing, and your train of thought. Your JB spankings sound wonderful...and I have to admit I thought of the BJ connection even before you mentioned it...like minds...Asking, not sure it ever gets easy.<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15842526901481062563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-38171962697330905932016-04-14T23:55:34.043-06:002016-04-14T23:55:34.043-06:00So true, great post. Just because HE wants to. You...So true, great post. Just because HE wants to. You're right, his dominance, his decision (for me) is the most important aspect.<br />Love the JB > BJ connection, works very well indeed. He might understand that one although I seriously don't think he minds asking either so long as it happens!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-65151204215107755832016-04-14T21:23:42.030-06:002016-04-14T21:23:42.030-06:00LOL Ella...is the Spanking even held in the Summer...LOL Ella...is the Spanking even held in the Summer or Winter Olympics? Will there be different events for hand vs paddle vs belt? Sending lots of positive thoughts that you get all the JBs you could possible want and that Same gets all the BJs he could possible want. ;)<br /><br />Hugs and blessings...CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-70425671590276577772016-04-14T20:20:06.056-06:002016-04-14T20:20:06.056-06:00I guess there is the psychology angle to the whole...I guess there is the psychology angle to the whole thing. Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Seems like we have stepped so far away from the instinctual roles that we were meant to have, that we have to relearn who we are. <br /><br />Thanks for your wisdom, PK. I always learn something. No wonder Tom is so attractive. Cassie never has to ask! I know. It is a story. <br /><br />Doesn't Hurt to Dream,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-45528007989720471172016-04-14T20:12:41.030-06:002016-04-14T20:12:41.030-06:00Thanks, Ronnie. I love when you visit. Guess we ...Thanks, Ronnie. I love when you visit. Guess we just have to hope they learn to read us a little better every day . Otherwise, it ends up a "Catch 22."<br /><br />Sending Hugs and lots of Love,<br />Ella Ellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-82840683981107828082016-04-14T20:08:33.046-06:002016-04-14T20:08:33.046-06:00Of all the comments today, I am most glad that som...Of all the comments today, I am most glad that some "just because" spankings are back on the table for you. So happy that you are feeling frisky again!<br /><br />Hugs to Celebrate,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-38121130239295942292016-04-14T20:05:56.043-06:002016-04-14T20:05:56.043-06:00Lucky woman, Rosie. That man of yours knows how t...Lucky woman, Rosie. That man of yours knows how to get in your head. I wish I understood why it has to be his idea, but when you get down to it, it doesn't really matter. Just be the man!<br /><br />Hugs Across the Pond,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-29690801435806459092016-04-14T20:00:18.984-06:002016-04-14T20:00:18.984-06:00Your praise always elicits a big smile, Mere. For...Your praise always elicits a big smile, Mere. For a whole year now you have kept me dead honest about the way ttwd works for Sam and I. It is always a surprise to learn that others feel the same as I do.<br /><br />Ella Staying True Blue Ellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-79287341924902839992016-04-14T19:53:06.354-06:002016-04-14T19:53:06.354-06:00It is comforting to know that I am not alone in my...It is comforting to know that I am not alone in my thinking on this subject. Asking for a spanking equals "Meh." The dominance is the key.<br /><br />Thanks for you thoughts on this, Terps. Ellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-6476146179550382452016-04-14T19:44:12.315-06:002016-04-14T19:44:12.315-06:00I think every couple has its own designation for t...I think every couple has its own designation for this kind of spanking. The point is, "Please let it be your idea!"<br /><br />Hugs From EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-23012295358271974052016-04-14T13:55:28.776-06:002016-04-14T13:55:28.776-06:00Exactly! I used to compare it to kissing.There is ...Exactly! I used to compare it to kissing.There is nothing wrong with asking for a kiss occasionally. But if it never seems to occur to him on his own, if I have to beg for a kiss then just forget the whole damn thing! Now he will often initiate little one, but rarely anything over a swat or two. I feel torn, one part of me would like a real barn burner, but the other part says just forget it.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-91348109247452047112016-04-14T11:40:58.390-06:002016-04-14T11:40:58.390-06:00Hi Ella,
Loved your post. I have to agree with ot...Hi Ella,<br /><br />Loved your post. I have to agree with others - "Just because" ones are the best.<br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.com