tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post6940951687045290011..comments2023-03-29T08:15:49.360-06:00Comments on Ella Ever After: Cry Me a RiverEllahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-73597470958789792312016-10-24T05:07:20.144-06:002016-10-24T05:07:20.144-06:00Rosie, I am feeling much better and it feels good ...Rosie, I am feeling much better and it feels good to be writing again. I certainly cannot cry every time, but when it happens, the spanking and the tears bring back the calm. It is best if Sam can see that he needs to take care of the stress.<br /><br />I love knowing what your smile looks like now! <br />Hugs Across the Pond,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-11538606883294497102016-10-24T03:06:47.895-06:002016-10-24T03:06:47.895-06:00Ella, what an interesting post. It's not surpr...Ella, what an interesting post. It's not surprising you've cried many tears these last few weeks, given your illness and its consequences. I'm a cryer too but I've never cried during a spanking, though my mascara has run a few times. I hope you are getting better, it's good to see you back.<br /><br />Belated hugs from across the Pond,<br />Rosie xxRosie Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00765687509366453029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-49080943921467022402016-10-23T20:07:46.948-06:002016-10-23T20:07:46.948-06:00Katie Trouble,
You are so intuitive. I am glad to...Katie Trouble,<br />You are so intuitive. I am glad to be back, and it makes me very happy that you are glad, too.<br /><br />Sam will cry most easily when we are reading together. Also when he is telling me how glad he is that I am his "girl." That has surely been true for many years.<br /><br />I think we are very lucky women....to have men that care enough to spank. No funks allowed! And yes, I cry most often when I have come up short.<br /><br />Katie T, you must never work on brevity! It just wouldn't be the same. I like you just the way you are. <br /><br />Hugs From Ella<br /><br /> Ellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-24749495674229085602016-10-23T19:50:01.189-06:002016-10-23T19:50:01.189-06:00The comment including "insightful" goes ...The comment including "insightful" goes both ways. It is the confession and realizing my own shortcomings that bring on the tears the most quickly.<br /><br />Thanks for your Visit,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-27371728929293264512016-10-23T14:24:22.323-06:002016-10-23T14:24:22.323-06:00Hi Ella! :) Oh I am so very happy to see you writ...Hi Ella! :) Oh I am so very happy to see you writing again! I hope that you are feeling so much better! I love hearing that you laughed until you cried, and about your interaction with Sam! Awesome! I'm glad that you are writing. You have so much to share. Here is a great example!<br /><br />What a wonderful piece! Thank you for educating us, as well as leading us to think about tears, and crying. It is interesting to think that in the past, tears were often looked at as a weakness to many. Guys were told that they should not cry. I think over time, that seems to have changed in some ways, but perhaps it still remains for many. I personally love seeing the tenderness of Rob, wiping his eyes after a touching movie, or some similar occasion. Rob says that he thinks that there was a shift after becoming a father. I don't know if that is true, but it is a sign of his caring, soft side- part of the makeup of the man that I love so much. <br /><br />Tears and spanking... I don't tend to cry during a spanking- such as a "daily", or a spanking to get my attention- such as an attitude buster. Lately though, I seem to cry for many of them... In general, it all depends on what the spanking is about. If I feel that I let Rob down in some way by my behavior, it often leads to crying- which can start before the spanking does. Other times, Rob will purposely spank just long and hard enough to help me get to a much needed release. He is pretty good at knowing when to act. It is all very cathartic! <br /><br />Lastly (I'll work on brevity! Sheesh!), I know this very wise & wonderful woman, who recently told me that a good spanking, a good cry, followed by a good hike works wonders for one in a funk. She was right! Poof! Thank you for sharing. I'm so glad that you are back here! Feel good! Many hugs and love,<br /><br /><3 Katie <br />Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09502903951761571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-56013997792560549362016-10-22T10:24:31.687-06:002016-10-22T10:24:31.687-06:00That was a very insightful and educational post! T...That was a very insightful and educational post! Thanks for sharing. I have cried only once during a spanking. But many more times thru confessing - feeling guilty and sorry for the wrong i'd done. I prefer the tears that come from laughing hard tho :) Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-19183284982810672182016-10-22T08:03:20.242-06:002016-10-22T08:03:20.242-06:00Hi to you, too, Roz. Sam just loves it when I lau...Hi to you, too, Roz. Sam just loves it when I laugh that hard. He will just hug me to pieces. He says he has never seen me as happy as I am since we came upon ttwd. It brings me great fulfillment.<br /><br />Very Lucky EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-18426476474200252952016-10-22T08:00:45.486-06:002016-10-22T08:00:45.486-06:00Glad you liked it, Cat. It just always strikes me...Glad you liked it, Cat. It just always strikes me as odd that tears can signify so many emotions. That very same son I mentioned above had to put down his own dog last week. Seeing his tears made me remember that he will always be my little boy. I ached for him.<br /><br />Hugs From EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-2168490911016725152016-10-22T07:56:04.562-06:002016-10-22T07:56:04.562-06:00PK,
You are such a dear friend to me. Even if tea...PK,<br />You are such a dear friend to me. Even if tears don't fall, your eyes always give away your secrets. You don't need tears to have a tender heart. Besides, I probably cry enough for both of us.<br /><br />Love,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-47715853261521184952016-10-22T07:53:22.155-06:002016-10-22T07:53:22.155-06:00Mere,
I like how you mention your "promised r...Mere,<br />I like how you mention your "promised role." Shame is another time when tears come easily. We strive to be the best we can be, but we all fall sometimes. It's that humanity thing again. We can never be perfect.<br /><br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-27317453901217310662016-10-22T07:48:13.060-06:002016-10-22T07:48:13.060-06:00Abby,
I read somewhere that actually crying stimul...Abby,<br />I read somewhere that actually crying stimulates the production of endorphins. That is why we feel a little better after a good long cry.<br /><br />Hugs From EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-28732515853296282332016-10-22T07:45:50.523-06:002016-10-22T07:45:50.523-06:00Hello Sunny Girl,
There could be a whole other pos...Hello Sunny Girl,<br />There could be a whole other post just on the movies that make me cry. Songs, too. Count me proud to be a major weeper.<br /><br />Love and Hugs,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-77314116699160151732016-10-22T07:42:14.118-06:002016-10-22T07:42:14.118-06:00Terps,
You are indeed a sensitive woman and very i...Terps,<br />You are indeed a sensitive woman and very in tune with other people's feelings. It shows every time I read a Thankful Thursday.<br /><br />Hugs From EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-19189822768731828082016-10-22T03:13:50.662-06:002016-10-22T03:13:50.662-06:00Hi Ella, great post! It's interesting the many...Hi Ella, great post! It's interesting the many different types of tears that are shed and reasons why. Crying is so cathartic. Glad you and Sam shared some tears of laughter :)<br /><br />Hugs <br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-47970801392195443212016-10-21T19:09:36.109-06:002016-10-21T19:09:36.109-06:00Love this post, Ella and agree with everything you...Love this post, Ella and agree with everything you said and yes, sometimes I just need a good cry. If I bottle up my tears too long, then I'll start crying at a sad picture or story on the internet. Hope you're feeling much better.<br /><br />Hugs and blessings...CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-77994316982327062362016-10-21T15:07:42.174-06:002016-10-21T15:07:42.174-06:00I cry very seldom. I hid my tears so long they des...I cry very seldom. I hid my tears so long they deserted me. There are many time I want them back. They can come when I'm very angry but thats almost never. I've never cried during or from a spanking. I know how important tears can be, yet sometime there are years that go by and I've never shed one.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-42279299961894686022016-10-21T09:09:35.516-06:002016-10-21T09:09:35.516-06:00Ella,
I enjoyed reading about tears and crying. Sp...Ella,<br />I enjoyed reading about tears and crying. Spanking, those serious ones, are very emotional when I have not lived up to my promised role and a spanking is necessary. I cry before we even get started. Crying does help.<br />Thanks for a little tutorial here.<br />MeredithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-73736855037164946392016-10-21T07:24:10.827-06:002016-10-21T07:24:10.827-06:00Love this post, it is so right on. I have been mo...Love this post, it is so right on. I have been more emotional lately also...I have learned that tears need to flow, for many reasons.<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15842526901481062563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-46105719630255677042016-10-21T07:21:08.668-06:002016-10-21T07:21:08.668-06:00As Jude Law says in the movie, The Holiday, "...As Jude Law says in the movie, The Holiday, "I am a major weeper."<br />Wonderful post.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4089921175249262297.post-24512149969365736362016-10-21T07:13:45.321-06:002016-10-21T07:13:45.321-06:00I have shed many tears in my life: tears of love, ...I have shed many tears in my life: tears of love, tears of joy, tears of sadness, tears of disappointment, tears of anger, tears of hurt, tears of empathy, tears of great laughter. I expect I will shed many more. As you said it is part of being a feeling being. :-) Hugs to you and thanks for a wonderful post. Terpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.com