Thursday, November 12, 2015

LOL - Love Our Learners Day


 


 Welcome to all of you readers that visit but prefer not to comment.  This is my first year with a blog and my first LOL celebration.  I like to refer to LOL as "Love Our Learners."  Maybe that's because I was a teacher.  Last year this time I was just like you.  I was
reading and learning about ttwd and getting to know about the people out in blogland who choose to base their relationship on it.  



I never commented on any blog back then.  Not sure what some of you might say as to why you don't, but there were many reasons I chose not to.
  1. I was frightened and naive.  Maybe there would be someone out there who could identify me or cause me harm somehow.
  2. I was still embarrassed to admit that spanking was such a strong fascination for me.
  3. I felt that our version of dd/ttwd wasn't as good as the way some of the bloggers I read did things.  Sam and I were just not experienced, and any comments I made would sound stupid.
  4. I just wasn't ready.  I needed to read and read and read some more.  Learn and evaluate.
  5. I needed to find my niche.  Just wasn't comfortable with so many blogs where the focus was on a strict Dom/Sub relationship.  Collars and whips scare the hell out of me.
So, as far as I'm concerned, take your time.  You'll make a comment when you're ready.  Or maybe you never will.  Just know I am glad you are reading.

Thought I would tell a quick story so you don't think ttwd is all serious rules and stuff.  Sam and I have so much fun with it sometimes that it is hard to explain the joy it brings us.  Last night when I got home from work, I poured myself a beer and started chopping up fruit and vegetables at the counter that opens to our dining room.  Sam and I talked about our day and thought about the Thanksgiving grocery list.  Finished up my kitchen duties pretty quickly and started to tidy up.  Sam was in the kitchen by then, and when I bent over to load the dishwasher, Whack! he got me with a spatula he had grabbed.

Don't know what the turn on is, but Sam loves when I wear dark tights or leggings.  However, they usually provide enough padding that a spanking over them is pretty mild stuff.  When he didn't get the big "Ouch" he expected, I went face down over the kitchen counter, and Sam put a bit more arm into it.  Still no reaction from me, and then I started laughing at his frustration.  So tights and panties were down, and he started in again.  This time he got a lot more noise, but I just couldn't stop laughing.  It became a see-saw
of ouches and guffaws.  Sam was laughing, too, and grabbing different cooking tools out of the jar on the counter.  I started to get back up once, but I only got as far as the laundry area.  Now I was over the washing machine and laughing so hard that there were tears in my eyes.  

When we finally stopped and he took me in his arms, Sam told me that was a "Just Because" spanking.  Just because he can and just because he loves me.


42 comments:

  1. Ella,
    Those are the best kind of spankings, laughing and good loving too.
    Welcome to your first LOL Day.
    Meredith

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    1. Mere, it is fitting that you made the first comment for LOL, since you were my "First Hello."

      Ella

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  2. Ella,

    Lovely post. I do enjoy visiting with you. Hope you enjoy your first LOL day.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Thanks, Ronnie. I love to visit your place, too. Thanks for making me feel so welcome my first year.

      Ella

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  3. Hi Ella, oh those just because spankings are the best!! I hope your Lol day is great, party on!
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Our Sweet English Rose, I always think of you when I see pretty china tea cups or pink roses. So glad to know you.

      Hugs,
      Ella

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  4. Ella - the just because ones are the best - I agree with Jan. So glad you're here.

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    1. You are so sweet, Sunny. You make me happy whether I am visiting your blog or reading a yummy cowboy story. I am glad to be here, too.

      Ella

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  5. Just because spankings always make me smile!
    Love visiting here!

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    1. Minelle, sometimes Sam calls them Who's the Boss spankings, too. That is because he says that several times during the spanking, and I had better give the correct answer. It is so much fun to laugh and be spanked at the same time.

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  6. just because is always a great reason :-) Hugs...so glad to visit here

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    1. Terps, I love when you visit, too. Your tender heart always shows through in your words.

      Ella

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  7. Hi, visiting for the first time - yet another reason I love LOL day, meeting new people!

    Happy LOL day!

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    1. Thank you, Julia,
      I will try to visit you soon, too! LOL is so much fun. I didn't expect so much activity. I told PK that I wish I had taken a day off work. I feel like I was late to the party!

      Ella

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  8. I wouldn't like things to be serious all the time either. I love those fun spankings! Happy LOL Day! :)

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    1. Hi Lilli, I do enjoy the laughter. Sam says that is one thing that is so wonderful about ttwd. He loves to hear me laugh when I cannot stop.

      Ella

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  9. Greetings from across the Pond Ella! H and I have a lot of fun too.

    Rosie xx

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    1. Welcome Rosie! I love my visitors from Across the Pond. Sam and I are planning a trip across next year, and I am very excited about it.

      I am glad that you and H have fun, too. I think some people think it is all rules and very serious. Very not so!

      Ella

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  10. Just because spankings are the best kind. Spankings do not all need to be serious stuff....we often end up laughing...
    hugs abby

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    1. I have really enjoyed getting to know you, Abby, this first year in blogland. Your visits are always welcome.

      Hugs,
      Ella

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  11. Happy LOL Day Ella...you and Sam are so cute...try to visit whenever I can but don't always manage to comment. Thanks for sharing.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. Oh, Cat, your presence and contribution to blogland is huge. There are so many times I repeat your funnies to people. I so do not tell jokes very well, but I feel positively witty when sharing a Cat joke. You and Jack should have your own TV show!

      Ella

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  12. Ella, I hope you have a very happy and enjoyable LOL Day!

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    1. Thanks so much for visiting today, Doc. Sometimes Sam likes to play doctor, too. He says that he knows a spanking will cure many bad habits.

      Ella

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  13. Hi Ella, Hope you enjoy your first LOL day. It is mine also as I was like you before and too scared to comment and blog for fear of what people would say.
    Love the way Sam gave you a JUST BECAUSE spanking, he knows how to take care of you and have fun.
    Hope you get heaps of visitors.
    cheers Lindy x

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    1. Hi Lindy, we are both newbies here. I feel like we should have a Blog Cake with just one candle! Love when you visit.

      Ella

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  14. Hi Ella, Happy LOL Day. Loved the story, and ttwd are definitely not only about rules and discipline. :)

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Hello to you, Ni Na. Thanks for stopping by today. I will try to visit you soon, too. I am glad you liked the story. I am finding that writing again makes me very happy.

      Hugs,
      Ella

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  15. Happy to have found your blog. :) Happy lol day!! :)

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    1. That makes me happy, too, Kenzie. I will search for your blog. This is such a fun way to meet new people!

      Ella

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  16. My Man seems to love the yoga pants spanking. Happy LOL day!
    XOXO Pearl

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    1. Ha! That made me Laugh Out Loud on LOL day, Pearl. Even if there is no spanking involved, Sam will always find a way to have his hand on my bottom if leggings are being worn. Thanks for visiting today.

      Hugs, Ella

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  17. Do you know how happy I am you joined the community! We all all different but I love the bond we have with each other.

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    1. I love that, too, PK. Do you know I was actually a little scared of you at first. Ha! That makes me laugh now. I somehow thought you were the Grand Dame of Blogland and felt a bit intimidated. Now I know that is just your big heart that is so grand.

      Big Hug From Ella

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  18. Happy LOL Day Ella...so happy you are part of our community. Thanks for sharing the cute story. ;)

    Hugs and blessings…Cat

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    1. Two visits from Cat! How can I be so lucky? Glad you like the story.

      Ella

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  19. Ella, I am certainly glad that you are part of the community here. Best one you will ever find.... Lol
    Well seriously, I guess it is LoL today, no laughing... Have a happy one

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    1. You are so right, Blondie. Thanks for visiting today. It is a great community and everyone has made me feel so welcome this year. Will visit you soon, too!

      Ella

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  20. Happy Lurkers Day, Ella. Can't believe it is a year since you started your blog. I am so glad you did!

    BTW, I just want to ask whether the washing machine was on at the time? It is such a funny thought that I shall go around all day with a grin on my face.

    Hugs
    Ami

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  21. Ami, you have become a special friend since I first posted. I read your entire blog before I ever started commenting. Your writing influenced me greatly and was one reason I listened to Meredith's encouragement to begin blogging.

    Ha! I had to laugh about your thoughts on the state of my washing machine!! No, it wasn't running at the time. Saturday is wash day around here. But you never know with Sam, lately. He is quite innovative.

    Hugs Across the Pond,
    Ella

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  22. Hi Ella,

    Thanks for your excellent post. Your message is exactly what I needed to hear when I was a lurker (OK, that was a log time ago). I loved the kitchen story. It sounds like Randy and me. BTW, he too develops an irrational spanko lust when I wear tights/leggings.

    Hugs,
    Bonnie

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  23. Oh Ella I love your happy stories!! And it must be something with those leggings because I get more attention paid to my butt when I wear them. Or jeans that fit just right. Lol

    As for LOL day....I just wanted to thank you for your friendship.

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