Thursday, March 3, 2016

Lovely Little Words - The Sequel





A while ago now, I published a post about how those lovely little spanking words and phrases were just so special and appreciated by me - mostly in books, but once in a while from Sam himself.  You all shared some good ones in your comments, too. I chose some of my favorites to enjoy once again.

  • "take you across my knee"
  • "rubbed her pink bottom"
  • "You are so getting spanked for that."
  • "your bottom is a lovely shade of red"
  • "These knickers are coming down"
  • "Go get the paddle."
  • "the swish of the belt coming off"
  • "you need your attitude adjusted"


 Oh yes, I have loved those words for a very long time.  Long before Sam ever knew I dreamed of spanking.  Long before I ever knew there were other women like me.  Long before I ever saw those words in print.


Once I reached adulthood, they have always had the power to make me sexually excited.  Through my pre-ttwd years, I could pull them
to the conscious part of my brain along with some limited visual images whenever I had the time and inclination.  Sometimes it was just a short snippet - maybe in the car by myself or waiting in a line.  Other times I could luxuriate in a full-blown fantasy.  Of course, it was my secret.  No one else ever knew.



Over the years, I discovered that these spanking words and fantasies were so strong for me that with some concentration, I could actually bring myself to orgasm with no touching whatsoever.  Think of the possibilities!  Since my life in ttwd/dd
There is a spanking in your very near future.
began, I have become much bolder about investigating things on the Internet.  I did actually find a statistic that said about 10% of women who regularly achieve orgasm are also able to do it without touching themselves.  If that figure is correct, there may be some of you out there who also have this gift.




Reading powerpoint..word for word
I think this secret of mine was never so appreciated as at boring professional workshops and teacher inservice days.  Those of you out there who were teachers or who are still teaching may or may not be able to identify with my opinion on "inservice" days.  I say that 95% of the required professional development days/meetings were a complete waste of time!  If I could get away with it, I brought work to the meetings and tried to get caught up.  How many nights and weekends did I devote to paperwork and lesson preparation?  Thousands of hours over the years, I'm sure.




So right here I want you to imagine the adult voices in the Charlie Brown cartoons. "Wah-wah-wah....., wah-wah-wah...-wah-wah."  (Also imagine that I am wearing a baseball cap backwards.  That was my fashion statement for inservice days.)  If I was forced to sit in a chair for hours on end listening to someone drone on about any of the following topics:
 
team building exercises







  • Failing schools
  • Sand tray therapy to treat absenteeism
  • Reviewing the school district mission statement
  • No Child Left Behind
  • Re-examining Bloom's Taxonomy ad nauseum
  • Workplace team-building exercises
  • Brand new and improved Achievement Test
  • Mandatory OSHA trainings
then I had my secret weapon ready to go.



Snap!  Just roll out a juicy spanking fantasy and concentrate.  It took quite a bit of time and quite a few Kegel exercises, but I could usually manage to climax before lunch.  Talk about a Cheshire Cat smile on my face!



Now to keep to honest facts here, this is much harder for me to do than it used to be.  Age comes knocking at your door long before
she should.  But Ella never gives up on a potential Ever After.  She's stubborn that way.  I file away all those lovely little spanking words in a corner of my brain.  So if the lines at Costco are 10 deep, and you glance over to see a woman waiting with a far-away look in her eyes and a wistful smile on her face, sidle on over and say, "Ella, is that you?" 



 













28 comments:

  1. Very cute post. Now, as I'm waiting in lines, I'll be watching for those far away looks.

    We had those meetings in social services too. I remember we spent six weeks on a mission statement because it is such a priority in No Child Left Behind.

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    1. Mission statements are the worst! Make up a whole lot of stuff that sounds good and no one really understands. Wa-la! "It is a tale told by an idiot....signifying nothing."

      ― William Shakespeare, Macbeth

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  2. Ella,
    I began reading your post as Jack handed me my second cup of coffee. You had me laughing, thinking and remembering in short order. I am the woman in the next line at Costco. I am the one thinking over those phrases and trying to work those muscles.

    So interesting, Jack can use those phrases with me and my behavior does stop. Those are powerful phrases and when used by my Hoh, when a spanking is not possible, I melt and lean in.

    No Child Left Behind = This really means No Teacher Left Standing

    Great post! I now think I will pounce on my man.
    Coffee is cold and it can wait.

    Meredith

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    1. My, Meredith. You, too? Do you remember a song that went, "Catch a falling star and put it in your pocket. Save it for a rainy day." That is how I think of my spanking fantasies.

      I will watch for you at Costco, Friend.

      Ella

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  3. I wanted to be a teacher right up till my last year in school. I'm so glad I went into finance instead!
    Wow, Ella, in all my many years of fantasising about spanking I never experienced anything like you describe. There were times when I had to jump Harry's bones as soon as he came through the door though. Those phrases still work!
    Rosie xx

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    1. I was very reluctant to write about this subject. Afraid how it might be received. Yes, those lovely little words can make me so happy.

      Hugs Across the Pond,
      Ella

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  4. Love this post for so many different reasons. Those in service meetings...such a waste of precious time..how i wish i knew back then what i do know..about my reaction to those wonderful phrases....actually, a certain group of us always managed to...have to leave 'early'....
    Yes, hearing those words, reading them, thinking about them all have quite a effect on me.
    hugs abby

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    1. Yes, Abby! Sometimes I spent time thinking of how I could get out of the whole afternoon. The clock just goes - Tick, Tick, Tick interminably slow. When you look again, only 6 minutes have passed!

      Hugs,
      Ella

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  5. I really love this. What a wonderful ability to have. I've never done that but I've often written spanking stories during one of these thrilling meetings.

    As I contemplate retirement I often refer to it as 'every child left behind'.

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    1. That would be a good post, PK. Chronicles of a Bored Teacher. I am sure your version would be the one I would want to read. Oh, how I wish you and I had sat together during one of those days!

      Ella Smiling

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    2. We would have been a hoot together at teacher meetings - all the cool teachers would have wanted to be at our table!

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  6. Loved this post, Ella...not sure I would roll out any fantasies while in a boring meeting, but I do have a tendency to space off and think of other things. ;) Thanks for sharing.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. Glad you liked it Cat. Since we didn't have to dress to code on those days, I would wear these huge farmer overalls and the baseball cap. My friends would giggle because they knew that was my little way of rebelling against those wasted hours!

      Hugs From Ella

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  7. Whoa!! Ella! :) Well that is quite an ability- that is for sure! Now I will have to look around when I am waiting in some long line or something. You are lucky in that realm! :) I think that the end result is tough for lots of women.

    I'm with Cat above, not sure that I would feel comfortable thinking too hard on all that hot Hot HOT stuff out in the public eye/at the workplace. That doesn't mean that there are not times when I read something and/or think of something and want to jump Rob's bones the minute he gets home from work though! LOL! Those phrases above sure are good ones!

    You mention school meetings here, but I would like to add that so many meetings seem to be nothing but a big waste of time. You know the ones- that keep you from getting your work done because you have to sit there and no progress is made. Ever. LOL! I think that it happens everywhere pretty much! I'm going to be looking around now. LOL! Have fun! Awesome and thank you for sharing. Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. How many times have I said how nice it is to have you back and feeling sassy. Well, I am saying it again! I agree with the part about reading something that just makes me so damn horny. The words just do it for me.

      Hugs,
      Ella

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  8. that is great! :-) words and the power of the imagination...a great combination! :-) Hugs

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    1. There are many in this group that know the power of the words and imagination. They write us delicious stories. :)

      Hugs From Ella

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  9. I've had orgasms whilst being spanked, but never "just thinking about being spanked". Sounds quite an awesome ability. The only snag is that my orgasms are always of the extra loud variety. Many is the time I've had to put my face in a pillow. I just don't have the ability to do anything like that quietly! I shall never view a supermarket queue the same again.

    I understand you completely about PD days. Luckily in my last school we mostly took turns to do the "afternoon session", and mine were mostly of the loud and chaotic variety, so no-one had time to go to sleep.

    Love your words and phrases. They are all quite classic, aren't they, in the spanking world? Strangely our men always seem to say them!

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. You are so funny, Ami. You are right, though. It was hard not to make any noise.

      I hope you will not start giggling if we are ever standing in line together at Tesco, you silly woman.

      Hugs Across the Pond,
      Ella

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  10. Ive been in many an school (Inset) meeting like that. Now I have to try and run them and make sure others are not bored, or at least make sure they are concentrating.
    Most of all I just want to go away and try what you've described to see if I can do it!

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    1. Oh, let me know, Janey, if you can! Be like the Little Engine That Could. "I think I can, I think I can."

      Ella

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  11. Ella you sure have a wonderful ability just thinking about words and going off like a fire cracker. will be looking at all the other woman in lines at the supermarket now to see if they have dreamy looks on their faces.
    Hugs Lindy

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    1. Waste not, want not. Use all those boring little moments in life to achieve greatness. Beats the hell out of looking at all the dumb magazines.

      Sending Hugs Downunder,
      Ella

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  12. So much of your thoughts echo my own! Reading old romances with spankings.... Hearing those oft said phrases, even without spankings..... Only threats! Daydreams all the time. Stories penned in my head. I even remember drawing spankings in my teens. I destroyed them right after however!
    Not sure I could have created that event at a teacher meeting! HATE teacher meetings! I draw all through them!

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    1. So glad to hear from you, Minelle. I know you are a teacher and speak from experience. Would have loved to watch you draw through one of those awful meetings. The clock never moved so slowly.

      Yes, those phases do it for me every time. I did draw, too, but not with any talent like you. Your drawings are so lovely and always make me smile.

      Hugs From Ella

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  13. Oh my Ella...what a wonderful ability! Lol. Wish I could do that! Hubby would probably just shake his head and say, "again?" Because I would do it. A. Lot. I was never a teacher but I imagine insurance classes are just about the same. Even the online seminars. Good gravy they are boring!! I do tend to fantasize a lot during work. And those phrases...oh, yes. I do so love those!

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  14. Hi Maggie,
    I think I quoted you in one of those phrases above. You had some good ones! Thanks.

    Ella

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  15. My, you are one lucky lady Ella to have this ongoing ability. I have been lucky enough to orgasm this way once and once only when standing at the deli counter. I had to pee so badly and I was squeezing everything so tightly that before I knew it it was coming and fast. By the time I got to the counter I was flushed and breathing heavy but with a smile on my face. I think I was in shock.
    For me, the words, the visuals, the fantasies have all been here as long as I can remember and all are very important and at the ready when needed and even sometimes when not needed. I guess its just part of being who we are.
    Thanks for bringing this memory back. What a fantastic post!

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